Past Boy Posts {Boys Week}

For our last post in Boys Week, we thought we would highlight a few of our past posts that were creative boy ideas.

Hair Cuts

Ninja Boy Haircut

Spider-Man Mask

Spiderman

Star Wars T-shirts

Star Wars Shirts

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We want to give one of you lucky readers a [FREE] Christmas Advent Calendar Pattern! All you have to do is comment on the original post with a valid email address and tell us your favorite family Christmas tradition. Your name will be entered into the drawing for a chance to win.

Winner will be emailed and must respond within 48 hours or the prize will be passed on to the next person.

Let Them Decorate {Boys Week}

As the mom, I have my own ideas for what looks “cool” in a boys room. You look online and in magazines and everything is just so perfectly matched and coordinated. It is just adorable.

So, when decorating my son’s room, I kept those things in mind and tried to coordinate and make it all work together. I picked out curtains and a bed set that matched and painted the walls to go with them. I thought it looked pretty cute. When he was younger, he didn’t care what his room looked like. However, as he has gotten older, I realized “cute” wasn’t very inspiring for him.

His cool blue striped wall–he thinks we should paint it red, and in general, that he should have more red in the room. Except red doesn’t match the tan, blue, and orange of his bed set and curtains! Red doesn’t fit in MY decorating plan.

I have to stop and remember that this is not MY bedroom. I don’t have to live in it. He does. I can make it absolutely adorable and make it fit my tastes for how a little boy’s room should look, and he can think it isn’t even cool.

Several months ago, while looking through a Star Wars sticker book in bed. He decided his walls needed some new decor.

Stickers decor

I could have gotten mad. I hate finding stickers stuck to everything in my house. But I stopped myself. He likes them. He stares at them at night and makes up stories about them. They aren’t just randomly stuck up there. They have purpose and thought process behind it.Sticker Decor 4

He thinks it’s cool. He has ownership over some of the decorating in his room. It doesn’t hurt anything for there to be stickers up around his bed.

I remember as a kid, I didn’t have the perfectly decorated theme rooms that we see now. I got to help decide the color a couple times, but as far as decorations, I chose based on what I was interested in. I put up pictures or put figurines on my shelf that I got as gifts. I don’t remember my mom trying to micromanage my decorating choices. It was my room, and I was the one who would have to stare at it.

Sticker decor 2I want to remember that as I think about the decor in my kids’ rooms and throughout the house. If I try so hard to make it look like what I think it should look like, then I am forgetting about the four other people that I live with that might have an opinion too.

So I encourage you to take a step back and give your boy some room to have a say in decorating. You could let him put stickers on the wall, or maybe just give him a section that is 100% his choice. Even if it doesn’t match the rest of the room.

Sticker decor 3

Ship battle

Building Block Lamp {Boys Week}

Ninja Boy has had the same lamp in his room since he was a baby. There were actually two identical lamps.  It was fine for a new baby boy–soft green lamp in a room painted bright lime green with blue, green, and yellow blocks on one wall. Well, sister came along, and Ninja Boy got to move into a new room painted blue with a couple of walls in stripes of navy, light blue, and white. Since there were two lamps, one stayed in sister’s room and one went with Ninja Boy. Lamp BeforeSince this is Boys Week at In A tickle, we decided his lamp needed a makeover. He loves Legos®, so we decided to try stamping the lampshade with the backs of different size Legos® with red and blue paint.Stamping lampshadeI brushed the paint onto the back of the Lego® and stamped it onto the lampshade. Since the shade was not a hard surface, I had to press from the back side with my other hand in order for the stamp to leave a complete impression. I made a different design on each side of the shade (why make it the same when you can’t see all sides at once anyway). I painted the base of the lamp with the same shade of blue craft paint and sprayed with acrylic finish. Now Ninja Boy has a Lego® lamp to shine over his creations when he gets inspired to create in the dark.Lampshade MakeoverLego LampBe watching in the future for an upgrade to the identical lamp in the girls’ room. My Princess insisted hers be painted too.

 

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We want to give one of you lucky readers a [FREE] Christmas Advent Calendar Pattern! All you have to do is comment on the original post with a valid email address and tell us your favorite family Christmas tradition. Your name will be entered into the drawing for a chance to win.

Winner will be emailed and must respond within 48 hours or the prize will be passed on to the next person.

 

Motivating with Competition {Boys Week}

Several weeks ago, we shared with you an author named Dr. Leonard Sax. He writes about gender differences, and in one of his books, he specifically talks about boys doing well with competition. When I read that, I started thinking of ways to use competition to motivate my son.

The problem we were having was with piano. He wanted to play piano and take lessons, but he was not being motivated to practice. I understand because when I was young and taking piano lessons that was the thing I hated most–practice.

Threatening to stop his lessons wasn’t helping. I didn’t really want to bribe him to play. I figured, if he wanted to play then he would, right?

Wrong. He wanted to be able to play piano, but he didn’t want to go through the trouble of practicing. He needed something to motivate him to sit down and play.

Dr. Sax’s book mentions examples of boys excelling in school because the teachers incorporated competition within the classroom. Since I have a background in piano, I decided I wanted to play more and get better. I told Ninja Boy that for every 10 minutes he played he would get a star. For every 10 minutes I practiced, I would get a star. Whoever had the most stars at the end of the month would get to go on a date with daddy, and the winner could choose what they would do. He of course picked golfing with daddy as his date (I never picked one because I had a feeling I would lose).

Competition Chart

I practiced for 30 minutes one day, and when he saw my stars, he was not going to let me get ahead. He practiced for almost 40 minutes that day. Unfortunately, I am busy enough that it got hard to keep up. I worried that getting so far ahead wouldn’t motivate him anymore. I was wrong. He wanted to not only win, but completely blow me out of the water.

He defeated me soundly. He practiced his piano, and his teacher noticed he had been practicing more. Mommy is happy.

Now, who really won?

Frame Him {Boys Week}

My Hubby just recently started working from home. As of right now he doesn’t have an official office space in the house. However, he does have plans to work out something that he can call his own.

When he was in our craft room at mom’s not long ago, he saw our wall of repurposed frames that we turned into memo boards and asked if we could come up with some like that for him. . .only more manly.

Finished Frames

Our frames are on the wall but this pic is before they made it up

Since {Boys Week} was coming up, I thought it was a perfect motivation to redo some more old frames for him.

I had him pick out some sheets of scrapbook paper that he thought was more manly (since so many we have are definitely more girl-friendly styles). He picked out a couple papers that instantly made me think Doctor Who, and if you haven’t checked out that show yet, do. (It’s available on Netflix. Start with the 2005 reboot, and you have to watch to at least episode 9 before you have an opinion about it. If it’s still negative after watching episode 9 and 10, then there is no hope for you.)

I started off by painting the frame Tardis blue.

Painting Frame

Pin feet for painting frame

I used thumbtacks on the back to keep the frame from sticking to my scrap paper.

I had quite the creative block after that. How much should I put on it? Should I make it look like a Tardis? Just decorate it with a bunch of Doctor Who references?

Suddenly, it struck me–minimalist.

I love minimalist artwork, and I knew My Hubby did too. So I decided that each frame I made him would be a shout out to a different geekdom that he is into.

Shout out to Doctor Who–The 11th Doctor

Dr Who Memo Board Frame

Shout out to Ninja Turtles (the original series, thank you)–Michelangelo

Ninja Turtle Memo Board Frame

Shout out to Star Wars–Yoda

Yoda Memo Board frame

Shout out to Superman–Man of Steel version

Superman Memo Board frame

Materials I used were acrylic paint for the frames, scrapbook paper, scissors, glue tape, sponge and paint to detail the paper (Superman), and fabric (Star Wars).

It can be hard at times to think about the boys when creating, but it is so doable. It can also be extremely rewarding, because if they aren’t used to you making things for them, they will be so grateful. My Hubby saw the frames and thought I was an absolute genius. In his words, they were “the best things you’ve ever made.”

Geek Hero Frame Memo Boards

Make something for a boy in your life. They will think you are awesome.

 

 

Space Pillow {Boys Week}

It is so easy to think of things to make for girls (at least for us). Could it be because we are girls and so far there is only one grandson and three granddaughters? Ninja boy is rather outnumbered. He deserves creative stuff as much as the girls, so we decided to focus for a few days on boys.

Remember this fabric that I hand printed last week? (If not, you can read how here.) If you don’t want fabric with licensed character designs or sweet little baby designs, there is really not much fabric to choose from for boys. So we plan on printing a lot more of our own fabric in the future for our projects.Space men stamped fabricNinja Boy has been wanting more red color in his mostly blue room, so this fabric is going to become part of a pillow. Fun pillows are good for a boy’s room when he is no longer wanting to cuddle with stuffed animals or dolls because he wants to be “big,” but deep down really wants to wrap his arms around something special.

Using the same fabric printing process as last week, I printed some coordinating fabric to use with this piece. I made a moldable foam stamp using the back side of Legos®. Lego StampAnd this is what I got:Lego print closeupI wasn’t very consistent with the amount of fabric paint I put on the stamp, but for the way I used this fabric, it looked good being uneven. After this fabric dried a couple of days, I heat set it with an iron.Lego print fabricI cut this fabric into strips to use on top of the red print. It was time to construct the pillow. I backed the red print fabric with a piece of cotton batting and quilted it with zig zag stitching on the “lines” between the stamps. To attach the strips of blue printed fabric, I laid them out on top of the pillow top in a square and zig zag appliqued those in place. For the pillow back, I cut up a pair of Ninja Boy’s daddy’s jeans (don’t worry Michael, it’s a pair that got too big for you!). Here’s how the pillow turned out.Pillow with hand printed fabricPillow closeup

Pillow back with upcycled jeans

Pillow back with upcycled jeans.

Using jean fabric for the back side of the pillow gives it more structure and for a boy’s room that’s a good thing!

So what was Ninja Boy’s response to the pillow? “Nice!”

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Winner will be emailed and must respond within 48 hours or the prize will be passed on to the next person.

Interview with the Owner of Kutie Kreations

We love creative people, and we love creative businesses. We want to highlight these creative business owners and give you a glimpse into their creative process.

Today’s interview is with a friend Kasey Straub, owner and creator of Kutie Kreations. She has been in the bow and hair accessory business for the last couple of years. Melinda’s girls have several of her bows and can attest to their quality and all around adorableness. We asked several questions, and Kasey was kind enough to give us her answers.

Kutie Kreations

Left- Kasey Straub (owner) Right- Lisa (assistant)

Tell us how you got started making bows.

I started making bows while I was pregnant with my first daughter. I fell in love with the look of bows and started buying a couple from different places. My husband was really not liking the amount of money I was spending on them. So since I LOVE to craft, I thought, “maybe I could make some and not have to spend as much.” The next day, I bought a bunch of ribbon and all the supplies to make them. Then I played around and made some up. They weren’t the greatest looking, but I kept trying and finally was able to make decent bows! Well, I ended up with a TON of ribbon and supplies leftover and didn’t want to waste them. So my husband and I talked about possibly selling pre-made bows that I could make out of the extra ribbon. That is how I started making and selling them and how Kutie Kreations was born.

There are a lot of bow businesses out there, how do you make yours set apart and stand out?

Yes, there are TONS of other bow and hair accessory businesses out there. So many businesses have the same styles, ribbon print, etc. There are only so many ways to make a bow. It is very hard sometimes to stand out from them. With Kutie Kreations, the main thing that we focus on is quality and customer service. There are little ways to separate yours from the rest. However, it usually isn’t long before you see that other businesses are doing similar, or perhaps the same, little details. The bow business is a TOUGH business, so that is why we focus on our customers and our quality. We strive to have EXCELLENT customer service in that we always have a great response time, and we complete and ship out orders in a timely manner. As far as quality, my motto that I always say is, “if I wouldn’t let my daughters wear it, then I will not sell it to customers.” I take pride in each and every bow I make. I make them the best way I can and follow that Scripture that I love, Colossians 3:23 AMP,  “Whatever may be your task, work at it heartily (from the soul), as [something done] for the Lord and not for men.” This scripture is what is in my heart when I make the bows. So to sum it all up, we focus on those two things, Customer Service and Quality. We know that those two things are the most important to our customers and that the experience and product quality is what keeps them coming back. 

Bow-Kutie Kreations

When you sit down to make a bow, what helps you choose the color and style to make?

A lot of times the orders I receive give me specifics on what the customers want, but when I make bows for Ready to Ship nights, I consider the season as far as colors. I also try to remember any style prints and color combos that I have seen on the internet or in stores. All of our bows have a similar style now that we have tweaked as we get feedback on what designs and such our customers love.

What is your favorite part of the bow making process?

My favorite part of bow making is actually two parts. I love the ribbon selecting process, like, when I am about to make a bow, I go over to all of my ribbons and select what colors and prints go together. That is when I can get creative. The second part is after the bow is made, and I get to take a picture of it… I get so excited to share completed products with my customers.

Headband-Kutie Kreations

Melinda’s personal favorite product is the ribbon roses Kasey makes. We have several that are just attached to clips.

What are your favorite materials to work with? Favorite color combinations?

I love working a TON of materials, if it can be incorporated into a bow, I will try it! I love shabby chic type of looks. As far as color combinations, I LOVE rainbow and bright colors as well as teals, corals, and rustic colors. 

What is it like working from home with young children?

Working at home with children can definitely be trying. When I first started up Kutie Kreations, I became engulfed in the business and almost became a work-a-holic. I had one child at that time, and now that I have three children, I am determined to not let that happen again. My role as a stay-at-home momma is still #1, and my children come first. Working while they are up and playing together is sometimes easy, and sometimes not. There are days when they are having issues getting along, they are more demanding of my attention, or are sick and need me the whole time. Most of the time, I like to work while they are sleeping. It tends to be more productive for me and gives them my time while they are awake. 

How do you balance family with work? How has your business affected your family?

This is an important question that every Stay-at-Home Mom that works from home should answer. If you aren’t careful, the home business can quickly consume all your time–it is always there and available to work on. Balancing my family time and work was something that I didn’t get in balance until after I had shut my business down for awhile. When I re-opened my business in August of this year after having my 3rd child, I made a promise to my husband and kids that I would not let it consume all my time again. This time I was going to control how busy I got. This time, I have worked my schedule around to where I am only doing minimal things for the business while my family is awake. This balance allows me to spend time with my family and take care of meals, laundry, errands, cleaning etc.

At first, Kutie Kreations was affecting my family in a negative way, I was consumed by it and wasn’t able to take time for my family like I needed to. Now, it is having a positive effect. Now, I am able to work and help supplement some of our income we need and still have most of my time with my family that they need. Now, I can say that it is worth it and that I am enjoying it. 

Bow-Kutie Kreations

What kinds of creative things did you do as a child?

My favorite creative things to do as a child were painting, drawing, and sewing. I was always taking art and sewing classes in school and thoroughly enjoyed them. Sitting down and creating something by hand was always a stress reliever for me, and I enjoyed being able to use my imagination.  

What other kinds of creative things do you like to do now as an adult?

As an adult, I still love to draw and sew. However, I have come to love building things and most of all doing graphic design (it is like drawing but without the mess! haha). I love being creative, it is a way for me to escape into my own little place and just release all my ideas out and make them realities! 

What kinds of things inspire you to be creative?

I find that the two main things that inspire me to be creative are, 1) giving myself a challenge and 2) finding ways to save money. Now that I have 3 kids, most of the time I am being creative because I have to find a way to save money. For example, I gave myself a new challenge now that my girls are getting bigger to make some of their clothing, which will end up saving us money! 

What encouragement can you give to someone just discovering their creativity?

My encouragement is to keep working at it. Practice makes perfect. I wasn’t always good at sewing or crafts, and I have had several “pinterest fails” and sewing mishaps. But, I just keep trying at them until I get it. You can’t learn the art of creativity until you practice it. So don’t give up! Everyone has the ability to be creative. 

Is there anything else you would like to share about your business or creativity?

I would like to say, if you have the chance to help support stay-at-home mom businesses, please do. I speak for us Moms trying to help out our husbands, who are already working as hard as they can to support our families. Every stay-at-home Mom’s business has a financial goal outside of their hobby. For some it is supplementing income, for others it may provide the finances for their children’s extra-curricular activities like sports, dance, and music lessons. We all appreciate your support of our businesses!

Thanks for taking the time to share with us, Kasey! Please go to her facebook or Etsy page and check out Kutie Kreations. She has pictures of all kinds of colors and styles of bows or hair accessories that you can choose from.

**If you have a creative business and would like to do an interview, please contact us at melinda(at)inatickle(dot)com or jan(at)inatickle(dot)com.**

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Winner will be emailed and must respond within 48 hours or the prize will be passed on to the next person.

Advent Calendar Pattern on Etsy {Christmas is Coming}

We have some exciting news! We have been working hard for the last few months to design and finish putting together a pattern to sell in our Etsy Store.

We are so happy to present our Christmas Advent Calendar Pattern:

Christmas Advent Calendar Pattern- InATickle.com

The story behind the pattern:

When I was a young girl, my grandma made my siblings and me an Advent calendar made out of felt and burlap. Each day of December, we got to put an ornament on the tree and read a paragraph relating the ornament to Christmas. We would get so excited to put up the ornaments each day leading up to Christmas. When I became a mother, that Advent Calendar was passed down to my kids, and the tradition continued. When my niece was born, I didn’t think it was fair that she didn’t have the Advent Calendar, and since she lives far away, we couldn’t share it. For her second Christmas, I made her an Advent Calendar of her own inspired by the one my grandma made us all those years ago. My mom and I loved it so much that we decided to make a pattern for it so that others could make one for their own families.

Christmas Advent Calendar Pattern- InATickle.comThere are 25 unique ornaments for you to make and place on the tree every day leading up to Christmas.

Christmas Advent Calendar Pattern- InATickle.com

Christmas Advent Calendar Pattern- InATickle.comIn each pocket, there is a slip of paper with a Daily Ornament Reading that goes with that day’s ornament.Christmas Advent Calendar Pattern- InATickle.com

The Advent Calendar is a special family tradition. The wall hanging made from this pattern would be a great family heirloom to be passed down through generations.

The pattern is available for instant download in our Etsy store. Make one for yourself or as a gift and get ready for the upcoming Christmas season.

As an early Christmas gift to one of our awesome readers, we want to do a giveaway!

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We want to give one of you lucky readers a [FREE] pattern! All you have to do is comment on this post with a valid email address and tell us your favorite family Christmas tradition. Your name will be entered into the drawing for a chance to win.

Winner will be emailed and must respond within 48 hours or the prize will be passed on to the next person.

 

 

Print Your Own Fabric {Part 4}

This week we have been talking about printing your own fabric. And that takes paint. Fabric paint is usually more expensive than regular acrylic craft paint. But what if you already have lots of acrylic paint on hand?Craft PaintWill it work to paint on fabric? You can paint on fabric with regular acrylic paint, but it won’t fare well on items you intend to wash. If you want to wash the fabrics you print, you need to mix a textile medium with your acrylic paint before you paint. This is what I found to use:Textile MediumYou mix it two parts of paint to one part textile medium. The easiest way to do that is to squirt out drops of each in a 2:1 ratio. The textile medium does not change the color of the paint, so you don’t need to be concerned about the color changing if you need to mix more.

If you already own lots of acrylic paint colors, using textile medium will save you money when you want to do fabric prints. It is especially helpful if you only need a small dab of a particular color and don’t want to buy a whole bottle of fabric paint in that color. If however, you are painting large portions of fabric in a particular color, it would probably be better to buy the fabric paint to begin with.

In some of the designs in Part 3, I used fabric inks. I think these are probably more commonly used in air brush painting, but it worked with using brushes, brayers, and stamps. You don’t need to use much though because a little goes a long ways.

I own very few ink stamp pads, and I was hesitant to use any of them with my fabric printing. I was not sure if they would hold up with washing. However, I found this website with a very helpful post about comparing various brands of ink stamp pads on fabric. She shows how each brand of ink looks when stamped on fabric with the same stamp and then how those brands fared when the fabric was washed. The ink from one stamp pad completely disappeared in the wash!

As I research, I am finding so many more ways to print on fabric. Of course, some of it will require investing in more supplies, so for now I will keep experimenting with what I have. You can buy special markers for fabric printing in all kinds of colors (and widths). Then there are fabric spray paints to use with stencils or a special kind of ink you paint onto paper and iron your design onto the fabric. You can also buy special papers to put into your inkjet printer to print a design onto and then iron it on your fabric. And don’t forget the many dyes to use for tie dyeing fabric.

I have only just begun to explore the creative possibilities with printing my own fabric!

Are you ready to try something different and print your own fabric?

Print Your Own Fabric {Part 3}

More fun today experimenting with printing fabric! If you missed Part 1 and Part 2, stop now and check out what we have done so far. This is getting to be so much fun, I think our next trip to the fabric store will be to buy more colors of solid cottons to print our own designs.

Today, I decided to see what I could do with pre-made stamps. I only have a few on hand, but it was enough to play with for three fabric designs.

Since I was working with solid white cotton on this first one, I wanted a background. I started by painting streaks of green fabric paint with a wide art brush. To give it a different texture, I put a twig placemat under the fabric and brushed some blue fabric paint onto a brayer. When I rolled the brayer across the fabric it created a unique addition to my background. Using the same blue paint, I brushed a dinosaur stamp with paint and randomly stamped blue dinos all over the fabric. Using another dinosaur stamp, I stamped little green dinos the same color green as my background stripes all over the fabric. It looked fine at that point but I decided to continue adding orange dinosaurs and also splattering orange paint over the fabric. Then I decided I better stop.

Printing dino fabricDino stamped fabricFor my next fabric printing experiment, I laid out several pre-cut craft foam circle shapes on the wax paper and laid the fabric on top. I brushed some fabric ink onto the brayer and rolled over the fabric with the circles underneath. I moved the circles around a bit and rolled more paint on it. My plan was to make it look like bubbles in water because the stamp I wanted to use was a whale. I ended up with frolicing whales on my fabric. On this whole design I was using fabric inks for my paint.Printing whale fabricFrolicing Whales FabricI cut another piece of white fabric and placed strips of blue painters tape at a 45 degree angle across it. Again, I used my brayer with yellow fabric ink this time and painted the fabric between the painters tape strips. Then I pulled off the tape and started stamping bicycles with fabric ink across each white stripe.Bicycle stamped fabricThe possibilities are endless for printing your own fabric designs. Give it a try! With your creative imagination and just a few supplies, you can be making one of a kind designs to use in your special projects. Have fun!